Saturday, January 21, 2012

Farewell to My Expat Life

24 months, 2 years.

The journey we started consciously back in early 2010.  Opportunity rolled on to our lap, an offer to work and live in Netherlands was first made in late 2009.  I made the trip to see if indeed this is the place I want to work and live.  Eindhoven strike me as a small and quiet city, in comparison to Amsterdam, like comparing Perth with Sydney, or comparing Ipoh with Kuala Lumpur.

We believed we can survive here.. socially and personally.  So, we decided to accept the offer.

Moving house, moving country.

My son just turned 6 years old.  Nothing matter too much back then since what matters to him were friends to play with.

It took us nearly a month to find the perfect house for our family.  Fairly spacious considering how small the houses here in Netherlands.

The office was within walking distance from our house.  So to blend like local, I started to cycle to work.  It was an awesome experience.  Then in Jul 2010, my office was relocated further away, not that I can't cycle there, but a little troublesome as I need to send Saalem to school first hence it will take me easily 45 mins cycling to reach office, approximate 10km distance.  The idea to cycle to office was officially abandon.

Transportation - in 2 years, I drove 3 cars. All brand spanking new! Our first car was Renault Megane 2.0 station wagon.  Was fully automatic car, no keys to start the engine. The windscreen started by itself if it is raining.  I enjoyed driving the car, but I am no fan of buying new car simply due to my refusal to lose 20% of the value the moment I drive off from the show-room. After enjoying driving the car for almost 10 months, I was asked to change the car.  I went to the lease car, and to my surprise I was given Puegot 508, also a station wagon.  Fantastic! It was a brand new car again.  Hah! Life could never been better. I also experienced the process of changing the car tyres based on season.  Winter Tyre, and Summer Tyre. New place, new knowledge.  Then, again, 10 months later, I received another magical call to change my car again. This last car was even better then the last 2! I was asked to change my Peugot with BMW 320D!! Yes sir! No problem Sir! Happy to swap again.. aahhh.. I am blessed!

I have been treated very well here indeed.

My boss is awesome. Won't name him here.  By having such a boss who is a great leader and at the same time full of compassion and humanity, my settlement in this new country become so much easier and better.

My colleagues also never stop trying to make me feel at home.  Their constant queries on the progress of my family well being, never stop to help translating the official documents for me, help to speak to the other line of the phone who cannot understand one word of English, and showing me the way to really make our expatriation journey smoother.

I can't say thanks enough to all of you. You know who you are.  My heart is always with you and as I said before, whenever you are in Malaysia, my home is yours too.  I would love to return the hospitality you guys have given to me and my family.  

Sam also made great friendship from here.  A very nice Dutch family, despite the language barrier, the warmth and the kindness made us forever grateful.  Christmas 2011 was also a lovely memory.  Thank you guys, we will always be in debt, and we hope to see you in Malaysia real soon. We would love to return your generosity and hospitality.

I made new friends too.  Saalem's school friends and their family become our friends as well.  Great friends indeed.  In times of need, they always offer the most needed help - Saalem had many play dates specially when both Sam & I were not able to pick him up from school on time.  We were invited to their houses, our friendship horizon was widen. Thanks my new friends. The memories will always be treasured.  My offer remain the same, whenever you are in Malaysia, you have a home to stay.

Not to forget the friends we  made through social network.  Through friend of friends, I was introduced to 3 great Malaysian families in Eindhoven areas.  They made my Hari Raya in 2011 more meaningful and ease a bit the homesickness.  We visited each other houses, and the great Asian atmosphere which was still the strong elements in their families made me feel instantly at home with all of them, despite the short time we knew each other.  Thank you guys, and whenever you return to Malaysia, I hope we can catch-up for old time sake over teh-tarik and roti-canai.

To sum-up, being here in Netherlands, it is a great experience. Nice country, great friends and seriously, I don't have any issue with the weather either.

Our chapter in Netherlands is finishing in 5 days from today.  Chapter 2 in Malaysia will start thereafter.  The cycle begins. House hunting, car searching, unpacking and unpacking.  Saalem has to go through the experience of being a new student, the new comer again.  He isn't pleased at all.  I guess the next relocation will be triple harder as he grows older.  I understood the need to create his own niche. But I know he will adopt to the new atmosphere.

Goodbye Netherlands, this is a journey we never regret.  Full of sweet memories.  Thank you once again to all of you who have made our stay here a memorable one!

From Said family - Samir, Azlinda and Saalem Said.
 

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